I think my point is being missed.
I've not written anywhere that she has an excuse to bully anyone, because nobody ever does.
What I actually said was.......shes going to get lots of bad media attention, and I personally feel sorry for her. Yes, shes been poorly educated, yes, shes a bit scummy, but I feel like shes had a hard life - how the frig are you supposed to turn out???? These people are the product of an upbringing, and I had a lot of sympathy and respect for Jade when she was getting upset about her mother. It became very clear that Jade has in fact been a mother to her mother. And regardless of whether or not her mum has looked after her kids, or done her washing - I mean real things, like given her mum advice, protected her, reassured her, made sure she didnt go too far in making a fool of herself etc etc. Real things. To be a product of such a life, where your mother has been a druggy, a prostitute, been on medication etc. - I think she has done pretty well, and I feel very very very sorry for her.