big dilemma

[GemGem]

been invited to my mates hen day/night this sat and tis also my bros bday (but it aint for definate that he's goin out)

Now fair enough i would love to go on my mates hen do, BUT....... i aint on v good speaking terms with her sister who is also going and of course she has a habit of going off on one when she's had a bit to drink.

i cant get myself messed up in any fights coz im preggers and maybe im paranoid but she could turn on me, afterall she did lose a baby earlier this year.

Also cant drink too much and if summat did start everyone else would be too pissed to help.

aaaaaaaaaaaagh help

 

[Superdan]

If its ya m8s hen do then ya could show up for a bit....before you or this other lass has had too much to drink, then after a few drinks leave.

At least you'd av shown up at her hen do and not got into a fight....

 

[GemGem]

If its ya m8s hen do then ya could show up for a bit....before you or this other lass has had too much to drink, then after a few drinks leave.

At least you'd av shown up at her hen do and not got into a fight....

like i said i cant get drunk im only allowed 2 units a week

 

[Superdan]

OK stick to the OJ.....

 

[JohnnyPink]

imo your kid comes first no matter how long you've known the person. I wouldn't risk it. If you've got doubt then just explain to your mate whos hen party it is. Is one night out really worth puttin you little un at risk.

Hope you get things sorted.

 

[Northern Star]

Yeh im wi Johnny on this...nothings worth puttin urself at risk...and seeing as u r pregnant u always have a good excuse for not going somewhere.......if she started anything with u or any1 who was pregnant she desreves bloody lockin up!imo!

Take good care of urself huns and let every1 else take care of themselves!

 

[GemGem]

well i phoned my mate last night and explained i didnt fancy going, she said her sister has promised to behave herself but i dont trust her.

maybe i should go for one or two drinks then get off whilst everyone is till sober

 

[Saysay]

I wouldn't risk it either. Whilst i was pregnant i went out for the first 4/5 months but i started showing alot more and i was concerned about people bumping into me etc. How far gone are you? Also do you really think this girl will start owt? If she did and god forbid something happened, if it was me i'd wanna take revenge on her and do something bad to her! So really i dont think its worth it!