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nathan

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why do we have to play games with each other when we are 'courting' why can't we be honest and straight up. Okay i used to like playing mind games a bit when i was younger but now I just want someone who is straight down the line and appreciates my honesty :(
 
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Myk

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There are people who are dead straight m8, honest. Theyre just a little harder to find.
I myself am often too "straight up" for my own good, but thats just the way I am. If something is on my mind Ill just come right out with it whatever the consequences may be..this can at times be cruel I suppose but as far as Im concerned if someone doesnt like the way I think then I aint forcing them to be with me. Pretence is good for nothing in my book.
 

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I hear you nath,
Fuck me if I started about this one, I'd be on here all day.
There are a few out there who aren't full of sh'te and they are the ones to look for.
The others can go tickle their own hoop!
 

nathan

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thanks guys

your words help my brain a lot. pmsl at tickling hoop. lol and myk I'm the same as you. Me being honest and saying i want to see this girl just makes me look like a bunny boiler according to my mates. What i was really trying to say last night was.... a girl can be your best mate and you can know her inside out but the second that dynamic is changed you don't know that girl at all.
Before anything happened with this girl she was round here with a load of people last week. I started this debate and she was like "that's rubbish I'm always the same" (every girl will say this as they can't see their own madness at all!) Then something happens between us and she starts acting all different thus ironically proving my point completely
 

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'Shabba' said:
We're not that bad u know!!!!!!!!!!!!

U fellas aren't that innocent yerselves.


im quite glad shabba stepped in for us chics coz we r taking a battering from u guys!!!!! ;) and its not like u fellas r perfect or anything!!!

thing is this game playing lark and people not being who they are business has always got me well confused :S :S

thankfully - there r good honest truthful peeps out there...:love: :love: :love: ..... unfortunately tho there isnt many of them amongst the mad jungle! ;) ;)
 

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northern minx said:
im quite glad shabba stepped in for us chics coz we r taking a battering from u guys!!!!! ;) and its not like u fellas r perfect or anything!!!

thing is this game playing lark and people not being who they are business has always got me well confused :S :S

thankfully - there r good honest truthful peeps out there...:love: :love: :love: ..... unfortunately tho there isnt many of them amongst the mad jungle! ;) ;)

I was feeling sorry for nath untill we got a battering from them!! honestly men!!!
 

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Oh no, don't get me wrong, have been a complete arsehole meself when I was younger!

Don't go down the bunny boiler route Nath, you are too good for that. If it isn't meant to be, itll be like hammering a jelly to the wall.


Take a deep breath and fuck her off!

On a serious note though you can give off the flirty vibes sometimes just by being nice, so she may not have meant to mess you about.

Hope it turns out for the best, besides you are a DJ m8 which we all know = le magnet du fannie..............
 
Myk said:
There are people who are dead straight m8, honest. Theyre just a little harder to find.
I myself am often too "straight up" for my own good, but thats just the way I am. If something is on my mind Ill just come right out with it whatever the consequences may be..this can at times be cruel I suppose but as far as Im concerned if someone doesnt like the way I think then I aint forcing them to be with me. Pretence is good for nothing in my book.

LOL at MYK
my god love your arse looks massive in that :D :D
 

nathan

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lol

@ ed le magnet du fanny I wish. Perhaps if i learn to mix my magnet my turn itself on. lol. As far as the girl in concerned I'm not going to worry about it too much. as I'm 29 and have lots of friends and need someone who is straight with me. This girl is 22 and has been seriously ill so i am trying to be patient and understanding. ED. talking of being a bastard when you're younger jesus. Just remembered in 1991 i'd leave a girl if she got her period and go with her mate. Jesus how times have changed
 

Ed

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Karma mate, it comes back and knees you in the nuts.

Just had a proper dose of it meself a while back, not nice when the boot is on the other foot! THe girl even had the same name as the girl I shat on in the first place 10 years ago. Now if that isn't someone trying to tell me something I don't know what is!

Stay away from those young uns mate, thats where all my trouble has arisen. If I think how mental I was at 22 I wouldn't fucking go near em!!!!
 

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Well said Myk mate - I'm on that wavelength :cool: I can be too honest for my own good sometimes too and hurt people without meaning to.

I disagree with the girls I'm afraid - I think women are FAR more evil than men. Most men dump you by buggering off, switching off their phones, ignoring your texts etc cos they're cowards. Or they do stuff they know will p*ss u off till you finish them.

I have NEVER known a man who has the guts to just say "I'm sorry, but it's not working out":mad: :mad:

Women on the other hand are sneaky, bitchy and rude about it all. They tell all the details to their mates, they are snidey and backstabbing. They are the ones who play mind games... they even do it with their mates. :| :S

Sorry if this looks harsh and blatantly there are exceptions to every rule. There are nice women and nice men out there but the above are more or less my observations.

:$ :$
 

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Ed said:


Stay away from those young uns mate, thats where all my trouble has arisen. If I think how mental I was at 22 I wouldn't fucking go near em!!!!

Oi, young uns arent all fucked up!!! the majority of them yes...but there are a few nice 1s!! :p ;) :p