carpe diem kiddies...carpe diem

[nathan]

ok I'm a get real deep on ya arse. Basically it's 12:40 am and I'm absolutely knackered. I got up at 9 am for footie and had a late one last night. I was getting pissed with a female friend of mine and she has a boyfriend she lives with. I quite like her but am not nuts about her or anything we're good friends. Basically she was plastered and was very frisky with me. We ended up getting up to nonsense and she said " we can go to mine if you want" now don't get me wrong this would've been great as I was really enjoying what was going on and she was a great kisser. But for some reason I waas in no hurry (stupid I know) In our drunked stupor that I took as gospel We were gonna spend a few days together and lie in bed them she'd go back to her bloke. All cool (I'd like to add that I don't know him and wouldn't sleep with mates girlfriends.) But today it seems she woke up racked with guilt and decided to go back to boyfriend as she didn't trust herself alone in london with me. And as I just told her on the phone I'm glad she doesn't feel as bad as she would've if we'd had slept with each other, but I'm gutted we didn't.

the moral kids..... never put off til tommorrow what you can do today.


very tired and emotional and am gonna go and have a moroccan cigarette which will either give me the fear or help me sleep. love u all

xxx

 

[The Frog Meister]

Ah Nath m8....... Been there.. done that........ got the F*** T-Shirt

The French approach to it is great ( in my view) " Better have remorse then regret That is the french way

Don;'t worry about it m8.. you'll be fine!

 

[pacman]

Ah, Its one of them 'you did the right thing but didnt do the right thing' scenarios. Hindsights a wonderful thing m8 but at least you kno what ya gonna do next time.

Take it easy fella and have a nice chill.

 

[untoe]

don't want to go into details m8 but know what ya on about and yer best stayin well out of it .....

if its meant to b it will be

 

[iche_1]

if its meant to b it will be [/B]

true enough.....but if you can make it be.....then by all means do it!!!!

 

[Red Mancunian]

:S

Nathan, if she can't trust herself to be faithful in your vicinity, although I'm no Marge Proops, I'd reckon that alone says a couple of things:

(1) Things aren't 100% honkey dorey with her fella, or she wouldn't even CONSIDER doing anything with anyone else

(2) She wants her cake, and to eat it, so to speak


And finally (erm, how can I put this), if it's just a bit of the old one-two yer after, then not a relationship, then no worries.

If yer after anything more, consider the fact that she'd probably do the same to you, given the chance...


BUT IF YER NOT ARS*D....

 

[nathan]

thx for all your replies

it certainly wasn't a relationship I was after and I doubt she was either. She's gone now but got a text from her as she left saying "just got on the bus. not sure whether that's what i wanted to do but too late now!"

I feel much better today after long sleep. Watching italy slaughtering equador zzzzzz