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Str33tb0y

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rite went out on a first date wiv a girl that works in a different part of the company to me on Saturday nite. went really well, she stayed over, but i slept on the sofa like a tru gent :thumbsup:

thing is she made a b line for me at work, and im thinking might be something going on ere,

bit of a kiss and cuddle on the sofa, and im thinking hmm dont know wot to do cos I had a first date with some1 else last week.

Today we are chatting away on msn for ages and then she says, not sure think we should be just friends. :confused: and Im thinking why have u made all this effort to go out with me and then say that after all that...bizzare,

kinda helps cos I didnt know wot to do, its not normal for me to have any women after me let alone two showing an interest.

can some1 explain to me wot goes on in a womans head lol cos I havent got a scooby doo :)

still at least it means i wont feel guilty taking the other one to me works doo.

really dont understand why my life with opposite sex is so f**kin complicated, im not after much, just a bit of companionship a giggle and a bit of the other now and again

not much to ask is it? lol
 
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This is totally the reason why I hate dating!!!! You put urself in a romantic situation with someone who you might not like. You have to date to get to know someone.
Don't take it bad that she doesn't want to persue it further. At least she is telling you. I have a feeling that she probably knew for a bit (I generally know within an hour or so) , but was too shy to say anything not wanting to hurt your feelings(I have done this before....but it lends you no favours, the longer you leave it, the worse it gets!). I know that sounds backward. I wouldn't peck about it. See it as her loss. Also, you don't have to worry about trying to contend with two women. One person is enought to keep u busy on the dating mission. Good luck and have a load of "Fun", don't put pressure on urself by annalysing it too much!!!!Enjoy it for what it is!!!!xxxx:love: ;) :p
 
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Lozzie said:
Better to be with someone that really wants to be sat next to you!!!!!!!
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Very true, theres' nowt worse than being with someone who you like loads and they only like you back a tiny bit. Story of my life, lol. So for the time being I've given up looking :)
 
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Str33tb0y

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Lozzie said:
Well have that, and stop analysing it. Your making this complecated. If she doesnt want anything, thats fine isn't it. Better to be with someone that really wants to be sat next to you!!!!!!!
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yep couldnt agree more, but i find it rather strange when she approached me and said she wanted to go out again only to suddenly change her mind..just found it a bit odd thats all

but yes ur absolutely rite :$
 
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Str33tb0y said:
yep couldnt agree more, but i find it rather strange when she approached me and said she wanted to go out again only to suddenly change her mind..just found it a bit odd thats all

but yes ur absolutely rite :$
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shes jus bein a bird mate. dont worry about it. its nowt that a bit of rophynol cant sort :thumbsup:
 
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You always want what you can't have???
Don't take it to heart if she is that confused about what she wants you're probably well out of it!!
We're not all like that!
Chin up and give the other one a call... :D
 
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These sort of head mashers get on my nerves in real life, my secret has been to avoid them, and therefore women LOL. It has its drawbacks, but it keeps you sane in the membrane, sane in the brain. Singledom is thankfully more acceptable these days.

Boy meets girl.....they feel love after lust and find contentment, they say whats going on in real terms warts and all, decide what to do and get on with it or not.

Girl meets boy.....they feel love after lust and find contentment, they say whats going on in real terms warts and all, decide what to do and get on with it or not.

Why cant it be that easy?. Why the million mind games, the back stabbing, the 'are we arent we', the tiptoes, the foot in mouth syndrome, the gossip mongering with mates, the tales of woe and not knowing whats going on, all the periphery fluff that usually accompanies such things?. The anguish, the racing mind, the paranoia lol.....:|

Maybe thats where I go wrong. Im too simpistic and cant be arsed with all that playing about too much, hahahah.

Ah well, heres to the next few decades.....:|


Sirius.
 
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