do you have kids?

[DeeDee]

i know your not all knobs

if i was you, everytime its your lads birthday or at christmas get a card and write him a letter of how you are feeling and missing him etc......then i would keep them safe and then when he gets older and comes looking for you, you can give him those and let him see your side of the story, which will explain a whole lot moreif he can see the real emotions that you were feeling at the time just an idea!

 

[Armando Needlefluff]

one word......... Bastard

Do you know him?? lol

 

[Biskit]

i know your not all knobs

if i was you, everytime its your lads birthday or at christmas get a card and write him a letter of how you are feeling and missing him etc......then i would keep them safe and then when he gets older and comes looking for you, you can give him those and let him see your side of the story, which will explain a whole lot moreif he can see the real emotions that you were feeling at the time just an idea!

Thanks Dee Ive already thought about that

 

['Shabba']

Something similar happened to a mate of mine, she has a little boy who is now 8 and his father has turned round and said that he does not want to see the boy anymore, even though him and his girlfriend live within a few miles of him.

She is a wonderfull mother and is always nice in trying to explain where Daddy is. Now, if Daddy had just fucked off, that would be bad enough, but he sends christmas and birthday cards, as do all his family!!!!! So twice a year after the child has been happy and fine with everything, he then gets the upset of having to think about his father again who will not see him!!!!

This poor kid hasn't got a clue whats going on at all!!

 

[Dj M Jaxx]

Im in the same boat as you Milenko, I have a son who's now 7, n I no longer get to see him. Its a long story, which I do not want to get into deeply.
Shes twisted mi little lads head into not likin me, I could of done the same, but I dont need to sink down to her level. Thats his mum, n in his eyes she can do no wrong, so its best left like that.
I dont believe in parents tryin to use the child against each other, even though she used him against me, n I knew it. I never retaliated, I never said a bad thing about her to my son, coz no matter what, thats still his mum. I tried never to swear in front of him, n if I did, he'd tell me off, and never raised my hand to him, n just when we were becoming proper m8's, he's gone.
There's not a day goes by that I dont think about him, but ive learnt to cope with it all now, n hopefully one day he'll come and see me n listen to my side of things n see the true picture.
Think ur self lucky u still see ur little'uns

Chris....ive only ever met you a few times, but i know you are a good person at heart. If you just carry on keping your baby in mind, and doing the right thing like you show you are doing in your posts, then things will change for the good my friend....I promice you

It may not be today, or for a long time....and believe me, i know how much that really hurts, but it will come right for you in the end

take care m8

Jaxxy

 

[butty]

aye i currently have 5381 of em

 

[Quey]

lol!! Not surprised! my latest quote.."Dad, when are we going to Buttys again? He's built his own pub and he's in charge!!"

Ur a hero

 

[butty]

lol its mint blaggin kids. im like 'yeah joe i built this pub all on me own. hes like woaaah!'

lol

 

[misstickle]

lol who bought this thread back up?

Nathan having a pop at the youth of today I reckon lol

Awww, it's made me all sentimental! I'm missing Cam and Valentina now (even though i'm sure they had some sort of mental disorder )

lol I'm still not replying to your childish poll though Nath

 

[silocybe]

I dont have an kiddies and to be honest dont really intend to. My brother has a couple of lovely kiddies so for me thats the continuation of the family line. Part of my reason on taking the stance that i dont want kiddies , comes from reasons that are probably a bit depressing/heavy to mention in this thread , and i can see a lot of Joy and love mentioned by most of you . I love interacting with kids and sometimes i think, maybe i could one day have them with my Mrs. But at this moment my better half and myself share the same view points. As sad as it seems , i get a great deal of pleasure and love out of my cats , people say thats a poor substitute , but i say love is love . One thing I dont believe , that has been mentioned is "the reason of existence is to pro-create" thats to easy an answer for me !

 

[Dreamgirl]

In a word ... no .... thank fuck

 

[grad]

bloody thread bringer backers..

just wasted 10 minutes reading something that i should of remembered reading years ago...bu thanks to my smashed memory i got to read it all over again.

anyway, I feel like i'm missing out after reading some of those replies

 

[Jiglo]

I don't have any kids at present

 

[martin]

Me and my partner had our first kid last xmass eve, am 33 so it was now or never.........have to agree with the car sticker being a def no no........lets be honest if some tosser is right up your backside, him/her seeing a baby on board sticker isnt going to make much of a difference.......Kids are gr8 but am 33, dont know how i would have coped if i was 23 and a Dad........

"Whos the Dady"
Martin C........

 

[DavyJam]

I'm 32 and I don't have kids, if I am honest I don't want any.It probably sounds selfish but I just can't be bothered.

 

['Shabba']

I have one fabulous, wonderful little boy who i love eternally and has brought me more joy than anyone or anything ever could!!!!!!

I don't think i'll be having anymore though, infact i'm counting down the days til he goes off to uni and i can go and travel the world and do all the things most people did while i was bringing up my son!!

 

[misstickle]

anyway, I feel like i'm missing out after reading some of those replies

Aww, i'm sure you will one day hun. You'd make a brilliant Dad (as long as you keep the chesteez locked away lol) In the mean time though, you can visit Carma whenever you want. She think's you're ace

 

[johny]

I don't have any sprogs, although my sister has a five year old that i take swimming, ice-skating, bike-riding.

 

[turpieaj]

Yep, being the olde fashioned sod that I am I got married first lol.
My lad will be 6 later on this year and from day one was a complete handful - very light sleeper constant feeding etc - probably the fact why we won't be having anymore. he gets competely spoilt and acts it most of the time with his funny little tantrums. From an early age we've pushed him on reading,writing and maths and is constantly top in his class on all three. We also make sure he gets sport under his belt he goes swimming once and week and he's currently being footy training by classes run by Watford FC.

Anyways heres a picture of turps jr.

 

[li'l Sonz]

awwwwwwwwwwww, how cute is he!!!!!

quey, pmsl @ that quote!! butty's told me about a few of his funny quotes!!!

any hoo, no kids (thank god!) yet, not for quite some time i hope!!! lol, i'm only 18!!!!! Still one myself!!