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<blockquote data-quote="'Shabba'" data-source="post: 324248" data-attributes="member: 874"><p>I got pregnant at 19, not because i didn't know about contraception but cos my pill ran out and i didn't renew it straight away. Now this may sound like a stupid mistake but i have since grown to believe that this was the best possible thing that could have ever happened to me and potentially saved my life for reasons which i will not go into. I was engaged to the father and was nothing but happy about the news.</p><p></p><p>For reasons beyond mine or the fathers control we were separated less than a week after i found out i was pregnant and when we got back together shortly before our son was born (I was aged 20 by then) the bond we had once had was not there anymore. </p><p></p><p>Brandon has a wonerful relationship with his father and is an exceptionally happy and well asjusted child so i have no quarms about separating with his father whatsoever. </p><p></p><p>Had i ever had to make the choice to have children i possibly never would have which scares me cos i now (as a parent) feel that people who do not have children miss out on one of the most precious and spiritual relationships that it is possible to have. I have now, at 26 just started my career so would like to spend the next few years concentrating on that but would love to have another child in the future. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite16" alt=":love:" title="Love :love:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":love:" /> <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite16" alt=":love:" title="Love :love:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":love:" /> <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite16" alt=":love:" title="Love :love:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":love:" /> </p><p></p><p>Without my son, the majority of purpose for life for me would not exist either, he really is everything to me and what i feel for him is not comparable to anything but love between a mother and child.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="'Shabba', post: 324248, member: 874"] I got pregnant at 19, not because i didn't know about contraception but cos my pill ran out and i didn't renew it straight away. Now this may sound like a stupid mistake but i have since grown to believe that this was the best possible thing that could have ever happened to me and potentially saved my life for reasons which i will not go into. I was engaged to the father and was nothing but happy about the news. For reasons beyond mine or the fathers control we were separated less than a week after i found out i was pregnant and when we got back together shortly before our son was born (I was aged 20 by then) the bond we had once had was not there anymore. Brandon has a wonerful relationship with his father and is an exceptionally happy and well asjusted child so i have no quarms about separating with his father whatsoever. Had i ever had to make the choice to have children i possibly never would have which scares me cos i now (as a parent) feel that people who do not have children miss out on one of the most precious and spiritual relationships that it is possible to have. I have now, at 26 just started my career so would like to spend the next few years concentrating on that but would love to have another child in the future. :heart: :heart: :heart: Without my son, the majority of purpose for life for me would not exist either, he really is everything to me and what i feel for him is not comparable to anything but love between a mother and child. [/QUOTE]
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