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<blockquote data-quote="woody" data-source="post: 324739" data-attributes="member: 7"><p>none at the moment, only ever had 3 what i would regard as serious relationships. one i was 17 and too young to even consider it, we split after growing apart. we're still mates though<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> the 2nd one was just not right, full stop, and we had a near miss without going into too much detail. if she had of had a baby, maybe things would have been different, but i dont even speak to her at all now, and tbh couldnt give a monkeys. so i very much doubt it. the 3rd one, just wasnt the right time, and i still speak to her and we are friends. kids had never even been a thing on the agenda to be honest, but she would make a wonderful mother someday. her and her mother are very close, and i know that her child would have as much love for her, as she has for her mum.<img src="/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/classics/hearton.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":luv:" title="azluv :luv:" data-shortname=":luv:" /> if not more<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite16" alt=":love:" title="Love :love:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":love:" /> </p><p>i personally would like to have kids someday, but as things stand at the moment, it would mean a drastic change of lifestyle and plea for a payrise<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite7" alt=":p" title="Stick out tongue :p" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":p" /> and i just dont think my environment would be ideal for bringing kids up. Its shocking to see what some parents are like these days, swearing at them and doing all sorts of drugs before their eyes etc</p><p>when i have children, i want to be in a stable relationship, with the girl i know that i'll spend the rest of my life with, so i can give the child all the love and support that i missed from early family life. my parents split up when i was 3 and have fallen out lots over the years but have been on talking terms for the past few. my mum and briefly my dad brought me up well though, never wanted for anything, but consequently, i'm not a big family person, and am terribly jealous of those with happy normal family life, with lots of aunties and uncles and cousins etc</p><p>its especially hard at xmas, trying to split your self between parents and i normally tried to work the xmas day shift at the pub or hotel, to get out of it. </p><p>Thats why i know i'd never plan to have a child with someone who i wasnt convinced i would spend forever with. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite16" alt=":love:" title="Love :love:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":love:" /> </p><p></p><p>not saying anyone who has kids early is wrong, not at all. you're all very lucky with what you have, and dont tell anyone, but sometimes all us non parents get jealous over the special bond between parents and kids and want that for ourselves! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> </p><p></p><p>thats enuff from me:$ </p><p></p><p><img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> Woody</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="woody, post: 324739, member: 7"] none at the moment, only ever had 3 what i would regard as serious relationships. one i was 17 and too young to even consider it, we split after growing apart. we're still mates though:) the 2nd one was just not right, full stop, and we had a near miss without going into too much detail. if she had of had a baby, maybe things would have been different, but i dont even speak to her at all now, and tbh couldnt give a monkeys. so i very much doubt it. the 3rd one, just wasnt the right time, and i still speak to her and we are friends. kids had never even been a thing on the agenda to be honest, but she would make a wonderful mother someday. her and her mother are very close, and i know that her child would have as much love for her, as she has for her mum.:luv: if not more:heart: i personally would like to have kids someday, but as things stand at the moment, it would mean a drastic change of lifestyle and plea for a payrise:P and i just dont think my environment would be ideal for bringing kids up. Its shocking to see what some parents are like these days, swearing at them and doing all sorts of drugs before their eyes etc when i have children, i want to be in a stable relationship, with the girl i know that i'll spend the rest of my life with, so i can give the child all the love and support that i missed from early family life. my parents split up when i was 3 and have fallen out lots over the years but have been on talking terms for the past few. my mum and briefly my dad brought me up well though, never wanted for anything, but consequently, i'm not a big family person, and am terribly jealous of those with happy normal family life, with lots of aunties and uncles and cousins etc its especially hard at xmas, trying to split your self between parents and i normally tried to work the xmas day shift at the pub or hotel, to get out of it. Thats why i know i'd never plan to have a child with someone who i wasnt convinced i would spend forever with. :heart: not saying anyone who has kids early is wrong, not at all. you're all very lucky with what you have, and dont tell anyone, but sometimes all us non parents get jealous over the special bond between parents and kids and want that for ourselves! :) thats enuff from me:$ :) Woody [/QUOTE]
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