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Should I tell the current girlfriend about meeting the ex

  • yes

    Votes: 12 63.2%

  • no

    Votes: 5 26.3%

  • not sure/don't care/its up to you

    Votes: 2 10.5%
  • Total voters
    19
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cam

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misstickle said:
lol it was just my lame revenge for my spelling disaster yesterday..........


clitorous???? :$

(oh well, at least you had a good idea of what to do with it, even if you cant spell it either :D )
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as I said hun, Im only guessing at what it is, or what to do with it, after all im only male ;) :D
 
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Fallout

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In my book secrets are worthless in a relationship - be open. If she doesn't like it, discuss her feelings on the matter in an adult manner.
Add your views - and remember, discuss, not argue.
If it looks as though it is going to create a problem asses the value of your relationship and whether the happiness of your current girlfriend is of more importance than meeting your ex. Sometimes you have to give a little.

Ultimately, if you are asking the question, it is clear you wish to have the platonic relationship with the old Doris, so why not just come clean - say what you feel - adding that you only have eyes for your current girlfriend.

Or - be a proper man, if you have nowt to hide, and take your current girlfriend with you.

I'm very much of the feeling honesty is the best policy - the truth usually comes out sooner or later, and if you've been keeping skeletons in your cupboard - it could backfire on you in a way you really don't want.

What's the worst that could happen?
 
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tell her fella if u have nothing to hide or owt and are straight up your new bird should understand if she doesnt then she should do so bin her lol. er coz if u dont say owt and somehow she does find out she will go mental mental chicken oriental :mexican:
 
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nathan

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ok here is the conclusion

northern minx said:
imho if u cant be yourself, who you are, with your partner then your living a lie
so, be straight and honest, tell her
discuss both of yours feelings on the matter and work it out between you, as a team :thumbsup: :D

all the best :wave:
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Just got back from a great weekend in paris.
Was greeting by my girlfriend with a huge kiss and hug. Was great. Then she said she had bumped into some friends from uni and introduced me to 'paul and his sister and her boyfriend'. Situation seemed slightly odd for some reason then I realised her ex was called Paul. She hasn't spoken to this bloke for months cause he was bit of a tosser and bumped into him as he was meeting his sis off same train I was on. My train was late by twenty minutes so they'd been chatting for a while. I was actually quite happy to have seen him as I was curious about him and he looked like a total dweeb. Which is always nice eh boys? ;) . Anyway I had already decided to tell her before I got off train but this situation just re-assured me I could tell her. After all she had just spent time chatting to her ex so why shouldn't I. Needless to say she was absolutely cool about it as we do trust each other implicately. One of the many reasons why I am with her is cause she isn't like many of my previous girlfriends she isn't jeolous and she doesn't play games and yet again we have parted closer than ever. :love:
 
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misstickle

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nathan said:
Just got back from a great weekend in paris.
Was greeting by my girlfriend with a huge kiss and hug. Was great. Then she said she had bumped into some friends from uni and introduced me to 'paul and his sister and her boyfriend'. Situation seemed slightly odd for some reason then I realised her ex was called Paul
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lol @ the irony :rofl:

sorty nath :p



All that worry for nothing mate. See honesty is the best policy :thumbsup: Bet you feel relieved and happy that you have a good girl there :)

love clitorious girl ;)
 


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