Warning crazy girlfreind alert!

[nics]

i have kept a lot of letters, cards, photo's n stuff from my ex, i was with him for about 6n half years or summat,

he was a complete tw@t the majority of the time, dont get me wrong i was no angel but all the grovelling letters are funny as feck to read when ur bored

i keep a lot of the little saying cards that old boyfriends and male friends have bought me over the years, it makes me feel good reading them and reminds me of the good times ive had with friends on days out and clubbing memorys etc......

i dont think i could or would ever want to read a partners letters from an ex, what you have with that person at that time is a special time and you build a relationship with them and its all new etc.... if you read past letters that say for instance he cheated on an ex then you would get all paranoid and start thinking all mad shit which is not good for the pair of you.

to be honest it may only seem like an innocent sort of letter but it could open a whole can of worms!!

past is the past i say

 

[Mesh]

Hmmmm..the ex files..a tricky one I have kept lots of letters/cards/photos etc from exes but I very rarely look at them..just like to keep them to remind me of the (few) good times that we did have
I like to think I'm fairly chiiled with things like this..we all have a past etc.. but I do remember finding a holiday video of my then boyfriend with his ex girl..I was gutted, lol. Seeing him looking happy with another girl before he even knew me..how dare he
I don't think any good can come from looking at your partners ex's letters/photos..although if I have the opportunity in the future ...I deffo would. Its very strange..its like 'tell me everything about your ex'...but then if they do its like 'why the fuck did I ask'
I think we've all got a bit of jealousy in us and when you are with someone..you want it to be special and unique..nowt wrong with that

 

[silocybe]

..... Mind you he also crys in the mirror so he can feel sorry for himself. Nuff said lol.

lol class line that

 

[DAMO 72]

one of the best threads i have had the pleasure to read here on osa.laughed outloud on a number of ocassions,and also could identify with what was being written in the original post and its many replies.....
i'd have read/looked at the stuff just out of pure curiosity,probably not felt as irrational as amelie but can totally understand why u acted in that manner.
sounds like you n jonno have a whale of a time(charmin loo roll thread..lol)
GOOD LUCK GUYS
DAMO

 

[Lozzie]

Just a thought.....it's like someone wanting to know ur sexual history. It shouldn't be an issue. It shouldn't be an issue at all. It is in the past to fuuuuck. You and whoever have the future, thats more than enough. I (for my own sake) am NEVER gonna ask about my future partners history. If he offers it voluntarily,thats fine, but there is only so much that i would wanna hear. As none of it actually concerns me, or effects my life at all.

I once had to live with TWO of my boyfriends ex's!!!!!! One of them had a son!!! It was hard as fuck. But my head got strong.If i can live through that, im sure some keep sakes wouldn't bother me.

 

[murfso]

Just a thought.....it's like someone wanting to know ur sexual history. It shouldn't be an issue. It shouldn't be an issue at all. It is in the past to fuuuuck. You and whoever have the future, thats more than enough. I (for my own sake) am NEVER gonna ask about my future partners history. If he offers it voluntarily,thats fine, but there is only so much that i would wanna hear. As none of it actually concerns me, or effects my life at all.

I once had to live with TWO of my boyfriends ex's!!!!!! One of them had a son!!! It was hard as fuck. But my head got strong.If i can live through that, im sure some keep sakes wouldn't bother me.

totally agree with u there past is past, id never want to know myself

 

[Amelie]

Just a thought.....it's like someone wanting to know ur sexual history. It shouldn't be an issue. It shouldn't be an issue at all. It is in the past to fuuuuck. You and whoever have the future, thats more than enough. I (for my own sake) am NEVER gonna ask about my future partners history. If he offers it voluntarily,thats fine, but there is only so much that i would wanna hear. As none of it actually concerns me, or effects my life at all.

I once had to live with TWO of my boyfriends ex's!!!!!! One of them had a son!!! It was hard as fuck. But my head got strong.If i can live through that, im sure some keep sakes wouldn't bother me.

Yeah it shouldn't be an issue, its not- not the sexual bit anyway. Its the very little things, the whole intimacy with someone else is such an obvious an visual way thats hard to see. Today, infact the day after i read them i realised i was being foolish- it is the past and its the past for a reason. I perhaps am not as tough as you, or maybe its just because i am so very much in love me normal reasoning self keeps packing its bags and goin awol lol. I shouldn't have looked- but not for the same reasons you wouldn't have, simply because it hurt (as i knew it would) my heart a little.

You know what though, its made me realise how much we have going for us. Its made me realise how we are different from the other relationships that either of us had, its more real, more raw and more special. Also, it has made me realise that those past girlfriends have made him what he is today, i should be gratefull, not resentfull as he is ace. As i said, fuck me that jealousy thang is a fucker when it creeps up on you.