whats she really saying?

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is she telling the truth

  • yes perhaps

    Votes: 4 20.0%

  • not a chance its a cop out to let him down gently

    Votes: 10 50.0%

  • could be either depending on individual

    Votes: 6 30.0%
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nathan

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a friend of mine ( I SWEAR ON ME LIFE) has just been sent the following all too familar text. what i wanna know is there any truth in this statement or is it just a girly cop out. Cause if a bloke said it I know it would be bullshit. but well what do u reckon.....

this is a quote from what she said to him

" U r an amazing person who i believe maybe came at the wrong time. i fell 4 u but constantly let you know that we weren't a unit as i was determined to be independant in ALL my decisions for the first time ever. I'm truly sorry but i guess i knew that I would come to resent you if we
settled down without me ever finding who i am by myself (cliche but true). "

Someone on this board once told me that you can't put a timeline on love and control who you fall in love with and when you do. I think thats 100% correct. Would a girl really jeopardise what may be something amazing just cause it's 'the wrong time' when is the right time?

my poor mate is in pieces :(
 
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'Shabba'

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Sometimes you really do need to be on your own and sort your own life out before you can commit to someone else.

About 4 years ago someone left me for a very similar reason and i couldn't get my head round it at the time but now i fully understand. If he'd stayed he would only have ended up hating me for him not being able to do what he really wanted, which he couldn't have if he'd stayed.

It could possibly be a cop out, but in some cases it's certainly true.
 
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Wow, thats a hard one! I suppose it depends on the circumstances. It would depend on what she meant by 'the wrong time' or should i say what reasons they are that she felt she had to send that text. I believe if someone comes along that you connect with it shouldnt matter, because people like that are hard to find! You should never miss the opportunity as you may never get it again!
 
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Eddy Osborne

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Miss saysay said:
I believe if someone comes along that you connect with it shouldnt matter, because people like that are hard to find! You should never miss the opportunity as you may never get it again!
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100% agree with u there!
 
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Eddy Osborne

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stomperbabe said:
i totally agree we that, i know i used it once in the past (bad bad lass i know)
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lolol women


id much rather they said the truth then some bullshit gimmick of them tryin to find themself WTF!

the text really reads 'i did like u and i started to fancy u, but someone else has come along and i much prefer him, hes also more endowed too, oh yeah please dont txt me again, sorry'
 
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nowthen

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ste huxley said:
I tell you something wtf is she doing 'txting' something like that!!!!:mad:

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KB'd by text!! Nice!:eek:

Dunno what to vote for meself, cos I don't speak 'female' an I've been tryin to learn it for years!:S
 
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northern minx

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'Shabba' said:
I must be far too trusting of people!!!!!!!!
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narr i agree wi u chic:D

i voted either..

sometimes ya so much in the shit with your own bollax you cant see the wood for the trees..

and indeed people need to find a sacred space within before they can even hope to share something sacred with someone else..:)

so this girl really could be being honest..
 
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nathan

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Miss saysay said:
Wow, thats a hard one! I suppose it depends on the circumstances. It would depend on what she meant by 'the wrong time' or should i say what reasons they are that she felt she had to send that text. I believe if someone comes along that you connect with it shouldnt matter, because people like that are hard to find! You should never miss the opportunity as you may never get it again!
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honey. my sentiments exactly.

this is what shabba said......

About 4 years ago someone left me for a very similar reason and i couldn't get my head round it at the time but now i fully understand. If he'd stayed he would only have ended up hating me for him not being able to do what he really wanted, which he couldn't have if he'd stayed.

This is weird as it reminds me of my fave/saddest film where the boy is sent away to achieve his goal and does so but never meets a girl like the one he left behind so even know he is successful he is never happy for leaving her behind
 
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'Shabba'

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nathan said:
honey. my sentiments exactly.

this is what shabba said......

About 4 years ago someone left me for a very similar reason and i couldn't get my head round it at the time but now i fully understand. If he'd stayed he would only have ended up hating me for him not being able to do what he really wanted, which he couldn't have if he'd stayed.

This is weird as it reminds me of my fave/saddest film where the boy is sent away to achieve his goal and does so but never meets a girl like the one he left behind so even know he is successful he is never happy for leaving her behind


You see this
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I'd like to think he's never been happy!!!!!!!!!!

But thats just the bitterness talking.
 
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RetroAndy

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ste huxley said:
I voted the either one.

Either way shes led him up the garden path:( :S
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This is a total cop out. The lass in question couldn't face telling him to his face so texts him and then if he replies prolly wont get a reply. If they have any feelings at all even as friends then they would find the balls to say it to his face mate. I am talking from experience fella as you know;)

Not sure about the other person either but whether they is or not thats no way to be dumped :mad:

Respect man thats all it is;)

Andy
 


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