whats she really saying?

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is she telling the truth

  • yes perhaps

    Votes: 4 20.0%
  • not a chance its a cop out to let him down gently

    Votes: 10 50.0%
  • could be either depending on individual

    Votes: 6 30.0%

  • Total voters
    20

Miss C

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nowthen said:
KB'd by text!! Nice!:eek:

Dunno what to vote for meself, cos I don't speak 'female' an I've been tryin to learn it for years!:S

Don't bother, you won't succeed.

Stomperbabe, i used some similar cack on my ex after finding some1 else as well. Nowt wrong with an iccle white lie 2 save there feelings is there

Agree with liquid e tho, u shud jst tell em the truth, men always find out anyway somehow, mite as well get it over with asap
 

nathan

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as i said its complicated

northern minx said:
narr i agree wi u chic:D

i voted either..

sometimes ya so much in the shit with your own bollax you cant see the wood for the trees..

and indeed people need to find a sacred space within before they can even hope to share something sacred with someone else..:)

so this girl really could be being honest..

and you may be right. and i can see why it looks different to other members. but saysay is right you can't put a time on love. hmm lets see when i'm 32 i'll meet someone and fall in love. bollox
 

nathan

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Miss C said:
Don't bother, you won't succeed.

Stomperbabe, i used some similar cack on my ex after finding some1 else as well. Nowt wrong with an iccle white lie 2 save there feelings is there

Agree with liquid e tho, u shud jst tell em the truth, men always find out anyway somehow, mite as well get it over with asap


this is speaking female. a contradiction within 2 sentances. PMSL. guilty as charged LOL
 

RetroAndy

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Re: i'd like

nathan said:
to see a world where people are honest. as liquid said honesty is the most important thing i believe. I'd much rather be told the truth as to what was going on in someones head than a loads of cack. people have no balls sometimes

Here here mate:D

Andy
 

'Shabba'

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Absoloutly, there's no need for playing games and talking bollox, but everyone does it to a certain degree, male and female.

I bet everyone on here has, at some point, not been 100% truthfull when getting out of a relationship, for whatever reason.
 

Miss C

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At least she's given some explanation, bull or not she cares enough to give a reason and not just say...your finished...goodbye kinda thing
 

Miss C

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People js dnt like confrontation do they. if its a serious relationship thats been goin on 4 a while it needs 2 b face 2 face, or its gonna cost a bomb in credit 2 say all the things that need saying when u break up!!

its so much more difficult and upsetting face to face tho isnt it, although it shouldnt be done any other way.

was it completley out of the blue that she finished it or had it been coming for a while do u kno?
 

nathan

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i'll tell you some more

Miss C said:
People js dnt like confrontation do they. if its a serious relationship thats been goin on 4 a while it needs 2 b face 2 face, or its gonna cost a bomb in credit 2 say all the things that need saying when u break up!!

its so much more difficult and upsetting face to face tho isnt it, although it shouldnt be done any other way.

was it completley out of the blue that she finished it or had it been coming for a while do u kno?


but if my mate ever sees this he'll batter me. He's lying on a friends sofa in pieces. people can be so cruel to each other. This relationship was going well very well. they discussed him moving up from london to york to where she lives. not to move in with her mind. Just to be nearer. He had a job interview and everything. she was cool and then flipped out over it. things haven't been same since but through it all he loves her. More than anything but they argue like hammer and tongs. there are other things that i don't feel comfortable talking about here. but no it wasn't entirely out of the blue.
 

cam

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He needs to get over her, give her the space she needs,

If he tries to pursue it he will push her further away appearing to clingy when she wants space, this is a bad way to go as women hate it and they feel clostraphobic

If she really loves him she will have her space and realise the mistake she has made, If she doesnt love him and is brushing him off at least he is not losing face in letting her go.

If anyones already put this sorry for repeating it i couldnt be arse reading all the thread lol :p im in a dead lazy mood today