Happy?
- Thread starter Brock Landers
- Start date
Im generally a happy person but ive a rough few yrs what with losing my mum, and my little dog then my grandad. But such is life im afraid you pick up and get on, then had a really rough time with an ex which set me back and took a while to get over, and not to mention the job from hell, which fortunately i managed to escape about 2 months ago and now i have a job i adore (pay is still the same) and money is always tight but i can live with that, so yes, im much much happier these days, i knew my job was getting me down and my persona changed for a while just wasnt the happy sparkly person i used to be but im getting back on track and loving life - always gonna be spanners in the works tho as having car trouble etc etc but hey ho 
Glad to hear your feeling good these days hun
Glad to hear your feeling good these days hun
im happy as a pig in shit!
finances are getting back on track, job is going ok, due to start more courses in january, im all loved up and more or less practicaly moved in :$ im another year older and wiser, healthy-ish so ive got nowt to grumble about realy!
hope all is well with everybody else
finances are getting back on track, job is going ok, due to start more courses in january, im all loved up and more or less practicaly moved in :$ im another year older and wiser, healthy-ish so ive got nowt to grumble about realy!
hope all is well with everybody else
Attachments
-
pig.jpg
I can say that i'm happy with life,I have a beautiful wife and 2 gorgeous daughter's 
(pain's in the arse's at times lol) .
The jobs a bit crap but hey i've got a job at the mo which is a bonus. We get to clubbin when we want (thanks mum and mum in law). Yeah so generally happy.
Wouldn't mind a lottery win tho.
and 2 gorgeous daughter's (pain's in the arse's at times lol) .The jobs a bit crap but hey i've got a job at the mo which is a bonus. We get to clubbin when we want (thanks mum and mum in law)
. Yeah so generally happy.Wouldn't mind a lottery win tho.
I happier with life when i'm fitter and with good friends. I'm working on my fitness again though for that natural endorphin high and I know i've got some good friends, so i've got a lot to be happy about
Work is kind of a worry at the moment tho as there's not much about at the moment, but it's either a famine or a feast in my game sometimes and over time it balances out nicely
Work is kind of a worry at the moment tho as there's not much about at the moment, but it's either a famine or a feast in my game sometimes and over time it balances out nicely
Yeah, fo sho!
Loved up, our 4 year anniversary is coming up, can't believe it!
Working for myself which is going really well, so happy on the work front at the mo and I've got loads of amazing things to look forward to in my social life....
Going to see Elbow on Friday , got my Dad's 50th birthday, my Mum's wedding, a 2 week holiday to visit a really good friend in Israel in November , CHRISTMAS (hehe) and then I'm off to New York to visit another great friend (Miss C off here) in January! That'll get me through the Winter months!! 
I love having great stuff planned!
x
Loved up, our 4 year anniversary is coming up, can't believe it!
Working for myself which is going really well, so happy on the work front at the mo and I've got loads of amazing things to look forward to in my social life....Going to see Elbow on Friday
, got my Dad's 50th birthday, my Mum's wedding, a 2 week holiday to visit a really good friend in Israel in November , CHRISTMAS (hehe) and then I'm off to New York to visit another great friend (Miss C off here) in January! That'll get me through the Winter months!! I love having great stuff planned!
x
I would say Im happy...Got a wonderful boyfriend.. a beautiful,talented, amazing, funny, pain the arse daughter ..a gorjus doggy, not got much money but that doesnt equate happiness imo...so yeah ,Im happy!!!
And glad you are all happy too
..a gorjus doggy, not got much money but that doesnt equate happiness imo...so yeah ,Im happy!!! And glad you are all happy too
ikontraband
New member
tbh im very happy @the mo , last few yrs gettin engaged to lisa have been boss , met some of my heros , but 2009 has been a really fantastic yr for me , ive become a dad my lovley daughter Daisy , opened a record shop for the 1st time in 10 yrs and putting nights on again,
life is sweet + long may it all continue
have been boss , met some of my heros , but 2009 has been a really fantastic yr for me , ive become a dad my lovley daughter Daisy , opened a record shop for the 1st time in 10 yrs and putting nights on again, life is sweet + long may it all continue
are u happy happy people
ive a beautiful baby that lights up my world every morning noon and nite -shes so contented
ive a cracking partner that looks after me very well so well hes paying for my trip to new york in december with shaz n mesh
always try to be positive, ive great friends smashing family (ian and daisy) and good health
i think thats all you need in life love and happiness
Don’t waste your time on jealousy; sometimes you’re ahead, sometimes you’re behind…the race is long, and in the end, it’s only with yourself. Remember the compliments you receive, forget the insults
ive a beautiful baby that lights up my world every morning noon and nite -shes so contented
ive a cracking partner that looks after me very well so well hes paying for my trip to new york in december with shaz n mesh
always try to be positive, ive great friends smashing family (ian and daisy) and good health
i think thats all you need in life love and happiness
Don’t waste your time on jealousy; sometimes you’re ahead, sometimes you’re behind…the race is long, and in the end, it’s only with yourself. Remember the compliments you receive, forget the insults
Glad you asked
At the moment no but then again I might be later.
The real question is Do you believe people when they say there happy.
I know alot of people that on the outside you would think they are the happiest people alive but when you get them on there own and ask them how they really are you almost always find out that there not really happy. My mum had me when she was 16 years old and i was pretty much looked after by my nan and grandad who where young themselves so i looked to me nan like my mum and my mum was more like a sister if you get me but she was always my mum and my nan my nan lol.
I lived with my nan till i was 6 then i lived with my mum till I was 13 my dad was told to get lost by my grandad because my mum was so young having me and he new he was a waste of time so no dad on the scene only my grandad.
my mum got maried when I was 13 to some fella who didn tlike me at all so he kicked me out and back to my nans I went I never seen my mum after that until I was 17 when my mum came back to liverpool I didnt know why she had come back home as i had not really herd from her only 2 letters in all that time. The reason she had came home was because my nan had cancer i found out only a few days later and helped look after my nan till she passed away only 4 weeks later. she was like my mother.
My mum then moved back to liverpool and my grandad who used to work on the docks got cancer 1 year later and I helped look after him till he passed away about 6 months after being told he had cancer.
I was never really as close to my mum as i was to them and had to live with my mum for a while but because the house was left to me there was murder and family arguments of who was getting what out of the house. I told them they could take what they wanted in the end and my mum soon moved out. I met My girl then and we had our loverly boy lewis but only after having him for a day he got meningitus and we thought we where going to loose him. He fought back and made a full recovery 3 weeks later my girl then had twins 2years later boy and girl and we have now been together over 12 years.
when the kids where growing up my mum never took much time to come and see them because she worked all the time and we ended up arguing over that.
One drunken night I was with a few friends and decided to get a tea tray and go down the stairs as you do when your drunk and think your 5 again when I hit the bottom of the stairs I broke my lower back and ended up in hospital.
I hadnt spoke to my mum for 6 weeks and her fella at the time came in the hospital late to tell me she had had a heart attack and had died so there i was lying in a bed couldnt move and my mum had passed away at the age of 47 my nan was 56 and my grandad 57 when they passed away. So I couldnt carry the coffin the next week when she was buried as my back was broke..
My own stupid fault like.
The thing is my girl had another baby this year who we named Denise after my mum and we have 4 loverly kids and we are happy....
But when you think about all that How could I ever be truly happy the truth is I am some days but then other days Im not..
Everyone looks at what they see and judges you.
But they never really know you until you let them into your life.
As elvis said people dont really love Me they love the IDEA of Me because really they Dont know me at all.
you can look at a person and think omg I wish I was them. I say "walk a mile in my shoes before you critersize and abuse walk a mile in my shoes".
I want to thank everyone that has tuned into my sets but over the past 2 weeks I have had problems online with people who dont really know me and want to either say stuff or try to cause trouble by coming on under other peoples names and after all the time ive been here I never come for that only for a laugh and to meet people who love the same thing as me ...MUSIC YOU JUST WANNA DANCE TOO...
There are too many people to thank and I hate goodbyes anyway...
So all I can really trully say is Elvis Has deffo left the osa building....
There will be a free slot from 4-6 thursdays so have a word if you want on.. Thanks again Elvis Aka Dean...
At the moment no but then again I might be later.
The real question is Do you believe people when they say there happy.
I know alot of people that on the outside you would think they are the happiest people alive but when you get them on there own and ask them how they really are you almost always find out that there not really happy. My mum had me when she was 16 years old and i was pretty much looked after by my nan and grandad who where young themselves so i looked to me nan like my mum and my mum was more like a sister if you get me but she was always my mum and my nan my nan lol.
I lived with my nan till i was 6 then i lived with my mum till I was 13 my dad was told to get lost by my grandad because my mum was so young having me and he new he was a waste of time so no dad on the scene only my grandad.
my mum got maried when I was 13 to some fella who didn tlike me at all so he kicked me out and back to my nans I went I never seen my mum after that until I was 17 when my mum came back to liverpool I didnt know why she had come back home as i had not really herd from her only 2 letters in all that time. The reason she had came home was because my nan had cancer i found out only a few days later and helped look after my nan till she passed away only 4 weeks later. she was like my mother.
My mum then moved back to liverpool and my grandad who used to work on the docks got cancer 1 year later and I helped look after him till he passed away about 6 months after being told he had cancer.
I was never really as close to my mum as i was to them and had to live with my mum for a while but because the house was left to me there was murder and family arguments of who was getting what out of the house. I told them they could take what they wanted in the end and my mum soon moved out. I met My girl then and we had our loverly boy lewis but only after having him for a day he got meningitus and we thought we where going to loose him. He fought back and made a full recovery 3 weeks later my girl then had twins 2years later boy and girl and we have now been together over 12 years.
when the kids where growing up my mum never took much time to come and see them because she worked all the time and we ended up arguing over that.
One drunken night I was with a few friends and decided to get a tea tray and go down the stairs as you do when your drunk and think your 5 again when I hit the bottom of the stairs I broke my lower back and ended up in hospital.
I hadnt spoke to my mum for 6 weeks and her fella at the time came in the hospital late to tell me she had had a heart attack and had died so there i was lying in a bed couldnt move and my mum had passed away at the age of 47 my nan was 56 and my grandad 57 when they passed away. So I couldnt carry the coffin the next week when she was buried as my back was broke..
My own stupid fault like.
The thing is my girl had another baby this year who we named Denise after my mum and we have 4 loverly kids and we are happy....
But when you think about all that How could I ever be truly happy the truth is I am some days but then other days Im not..
Everyone looks at what they see and judges you.
But they never really know you until you let them into your life.
As elvis said people dont really love Me they love the IDEA of Me because really they Dont know me at all.
you can look at a person and think omg I wish I was them. I say "walk a mile in my shoes before you critersize and abuse walk a mile in my shoes".
I want to thank everyone that has tuned into my sets but over the past 2 weeks I have had problems online with people who dont really know me and want to either say stuff or try to cause trouble by coming on under other peoples names and after all the time ive been here I never come for that only for a laugh and to meet people who love the same thing as me ...MUSIC YOU JUST WANNA DANCE TOO...
There are too many people to thank and I hate goodbyes anyway...
So all I can really trully say is Elvis Has deffo left the osa building....
There will be a free slot from 4-6 thursdays so have a word if you want on.. Thanks again Elvis Aka Dean...
Im sorry to read alot of that mate , i Love your sets and your a master on the mic Stay around mate its always enjoyable to chat 2 you
Stay around mate its always enjoyable to chat 2 you There are too many people to thank and I hate goodbyes anyway...
So all I can really trully say is Elvis Has deffo left the osa building....
There will be a free slot from 4-6 thursdays so have a word if you want on.. Thanks again Elvis Aka Dean...
I'm really sorry to hear wot u been thru.
You'll be missed m8. Top sets and a good bit of fun on the chatty. Look afta yourself mate.
ikontraband
New member
At the moment no but then again I might be later.
The real question is Do you believe people when they say there happy.
I know alot of people that on the outside you would think they are the happiest people alive but when you get them on there own and ask them how they really are you almost always find out that there not really happy. My mum had me when she was 16 years old and i was pretty much looked after by my nan and grandad who where young themselves so i looked to me nan like my mum and my mum was more like a sister if you get me but she was always my mum and my nan my nan lol.
I lived with my nan till i was 6 then i lived with my mum till I was 13 my dad was told to get lost by my grandad because my mum was so young having me and he new he was a waste of time so no dad on the scene only my grandad.
my mum got maried when I was 13 to some fella who didn tlike me at all so he kicked me out and back to my nans I went I never seen my mum after that until I was 17 when my mum came back to liverpool I didnt know why she had come back home as i had not really herd from her only 2 letters in all that time. The reason she had came home was because my nan had cancer i found out only a few days later and helped look after my nan till she passed away only 4 weeks later. she was like my mother.
My mum then moved back to liverpool and my grandad who used to work on the docks got cancer 1 year later and I helped look after him till he passed away about 6 months after being told he had cancer.
I was never really as close to my mum as i was to them and had to live with my mum for a while but because the house was left to me there was murder and family arguments of who was getting what out of the house. I told them they could take what they wanted in the end and my mum soon moved out. I met My girl then and we had our loverly boy lewis but only after having him for a day he got meningitus and we thought we where going to loose him. He fought back and made a full recovery 3 weeks later my girl then had twins 2years later boy and girl and we have now been together over 12 years.
when the kids where growing up my mum never took much time to come and see them because she worked all the time and we ended up arguing over that.
One drunken night I was with a few friends and decided to get a tea tray and go down the stairs as you do when your drunk and think your 5 again when I hit the bottom of the stairs I broke my lower back and ended up in hospital.
I hadnt spoke to my mum for 6 weeks and her fella at the time came in the hospital late to tell me she had had a heart attack and had died so there i was lying in a bed couldnt move and my mum had passed away at the age of 47 my nan was 56 and my grandad 57 when they passed away. So I couldnt carry the coffin the next week when she was buried as my back was broke..
My own stupid fault like.
The thing is my girl had another baby this year who we named Denise after my mum and we have 4 loverly kids and we are happy....
But when you think about all that How could I ever be truly happy the truth is I am some days but then other days Im not..
Everyone looks at what they see and judges you.
But they never really know you until you let them into your life.
As elvis said people dont really love Me they love the IDEA of Me because really they Dont know me at all.
you can look at a person and think omg I wish I was them. I say "walk a mile in my shoes before you critersize and abuse walk a mile in my shoes".
I want to thank everyone that has tuned into my sets but over the past 2 weeks I have had problems online with people who dont really know me and want to either say stuff or try to cause trouble by coming on under other peoples names and after all the time ive been here I never come for that only for a laugh and to meet people who love the same thing as me ...MUSIC YOU JUST WANNA DANCE TOO...
There are too many people to thank and I hate goodbyes anyway...
So all I can really trully say is Elvis Has deffo left the osa building....
There will be a free slot from 4-6 thursdays so have a word if you want on.. Thanks again Elvis Aka Dean...
u should PM butty n try n get to the bottom of what you thinks gone on online here, IP addresses ect ? times dates , its all there for the mods mate , whatever it is or was ive no idea but im sure ALL the mods would be glad to help n get to the bottom of whats upset u or been said ??
Definately!! I remember pointing this out to my old boss when he was trying to put me and two other girls against each other to get this training thing. I told him in no uncertain terms I wasn't in competition with anyone else but myself and wasn't going to be made to feel any differently. I was ahead of my targets so was pleased with myself, lol. If you're paying attention to how other people are getting on (in "the race") then you're not concetrating on your own shiz!! Just stick to what you know and all will be ok in the end!Don’t waste your time on jealousy; sometimes you’re ahead, sometimes you’re behind…the race is long, and in the end, it’s only with yourself. Remember the compliments you receive, forget the insults
x
Idneedy its what we are here for Ive allready pm'd Dean about this Nastiness or ill behaiviour towards another member wont be tolerated but we can only act if its brought to out attention or we see it going on Be a dam shame to lose ya dean
Nastiness or ill behaiviour towards another member wont be tolerated but we can only act if its brought to out attention or we see it going on Be a dam shame to lose ya dean 
Aw Dean I'm gutted to read what's gone in your life and also on here.. I dont know the in's & out's of the 'OSA' thing but what I would pretty much guarantee is its one or a couple of proper dicks who have nothing better to do with there time than be mean, say and do bad things!
I for one really hope you reconsider leaving here as not only have the lowlife toe rags won but OSA wont be the same without ya. Only met ya a couple of times but ya went right out your way to say Hiya and introduce me to your lovely Priscilla.
Best wishes in what ever ya decide and I certainly hope to see ya again soon
I for one really hope you reconsider leaving here as not only have the lowlife toe rags won but OSA wont be the same without ya. Only met ya a couple of times but ya went right out your way to say Hiya and introduce me to your lovely Priscilla.
Best wishes in what ever ya decide and I certainly hope to see ya again soon
