If so why did you have them.... Noticing an extraordinary amount of board members have kids and/or had sex at a very early age. Was curious to see why.. . . . . It causes me much distress that it is still illegal to advertise contraception on british television.
do you have kids?
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nathan said:
lol are u off on yr northerners hav kids young theory! lol
tho i do agree regarding the contraception ads
indeed i have one son, age 6, i had him when i was 24 because i wanted to, being a parent is a huge gift, it teaches me much about myself and the magic of life, its beautiful, very challenging but most rewarding
i shall have a gorgeous step son too when i am married
good for you
24 isn't too young to have kids IMO. Thanks for you reply and good luck for the big day
northern minx said:lol are u off on yr northerners hav kids young theory! lol
tho i do agree regarding the contraception ads
indeed i have one son, age 6, i had him when i was 24 because i wanted to, being a parent is a huge gift, it teaches me much about myself and the magic of life, its beautiful, very challenging but most rewarding
i shall have a gorgeous step son too when i am married
24 isn't too young to have kids IMO. Thanks for you reply and good luck for the big day
I'll give you the standard answer from blokes without kids....
'None that I know of' whey Hey, bit of a geezah, luvley jubley, little bit whey little bit whoa, I'm no jaffer, I don't fire blanks!!??
No - I have none.
On a side note - I feckin' hate those car stickers 'Baby on board' WTF? Ok I was thinking of ramming you but because you have a 'baby on board' I won't!! Its just people showing off how fertile/virile they are if you ask me.
'None that I know of' whey Hey, bit of a geezah, luvley jubley, little bit whey little bit whoa, I'm no jaffer, I don't fire blanks!!??
No - I have none.
On a side note - I feckin' hate those car stickers 'Baby on board' WTF? Ok I was thinking of ramming you but because you have a 'baby on board' I won't!! Its just people showing off how fertile/virile they are if you ask me.
nathan said:
Why not have children Nathan? I mean isnt that the whole purpose of our existance, to pro-create??
You really want to know why people have kids?? Now Nathan, i'm sure i dont have to explain the birds and the bees to you, do I?? lol Another reason that people have children is that raising a child can give you a lifetime of pleasure and love and achievement.
And we werent all as fortunate as you to be hanging out at the lawn tennis club, sipping earl gray and eating strawberrys when we were teenagers. A lot of us either got kicked out on the streets to fend for ourselves or were hanging around with the wrong crowd. Even so man, did you not have hormones when you were that age? A teenagers hormones are raging and you are very experimental at that time of your life, hello you're growing up!!
I have no regrets about losing my virginity at such a young age, and I wouldnt expect anyone else to judge me for it. I also have a child, got pregnant at 21, unplanned and am now a single parent!! I still have no regrets because I have a wicked life and so does my kid!!
Darling, I think you may be a tad jealous as I know you're getting on a bit and the old love juice probably isnt as ripe as it was eh!!!!! lol
Just kidding Nath, feel free to abuse me back (although only verbally, as I'm not that sort of girl lol)
yep 22 when i got her up the duff
wasnt planned but half way through shagging she wanted a kid, so I carried on and it fuckin worked first time !!!!!!!!!
wasnt planned but half way through shagging she wanted a kid, so I carried on and it fuckin worked first time !!!!!!!!!
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I'm not responding to your childish poll either as i could put a number of answers down, but i wont! I'll let you decide which response fits my situation best and then give me your verdict
I'm not responding to your childish poll either as i could put a number of answers down, but i wont! I'll let you decide which response fits my situation best and then give me your verdict
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yes i have a son who is 5 now, i was 23 when i had him but he wasn't planned, not that i would change it if i had a chance cos he is brill . I am still with his father too, not that i believe kids are always better off with 2 parents. from experience i can say i'm glad it was just me and my dad because my life could have been totally different!! i think there are a lot of situations were a child will benefit from one caring, wonderful parent than two of them who haven't got a clue or couldn't give a shit.
jayne x
. I am still with his father too, not that i believe kids are always better off with 2 parents. from experience i can say i'm glad it was just me and my dad because my life could have been totally different!! i think there are a lot of situations were a child will benefit from one caring, wonderful parent than two of them who haven't got a clue or couldn't give a shit. jayne x
nathan said:
what do you consider to be early though ? the younger the women the less complications likely unless young teens of cause. But having them in 30's early 40's theres more likely to be complications / problems with the child, plus once your older you get a second life cause there old enough to look after themselves.
Theres the point that the kids will come from a broken family, but lets be honest about that, most kids will if there parents are young or old now adays, marrige is not what it was and the vows made are very easily broken now adays cause thats just the way society is at the moment.
I once went out with the bird who had a kid at the youngest age in wigan, she was 10 when she got pregnant remember her WAFC fuck me she was a fine bit of totty !!!!!!!!!!!!!! and no word of a lie the back was as big as the front and that scared me so i dumped her !!!!!!!!!!!!
Yes i have a two year old boy,he wasnt planned and me and his mum are not together any more id tellyou all but its a bit of a downer(i dont get to see Brendan very often)and i wanna kill her new squeeze not out of jealosey but because its his fault she wont let me see my son. I totally agree with fathers for justice some women can be evil bitches at times
I totally agree with fathers for justice some women can be evil bitches at timesmilenko/ said:Yes i have a two year old boy,he wasnt planned and me and his mum are not together any more id tellyou all but its a bit of a downer(i dont get to see Brendan very often)and i wanna kill her new squeeze not out of jealosey but because its his fault she wont let me see my son.
he sounds like he needs a sorting fella. !
oh iknow he does cam but all in good time and it will be sweet!
im not a violent person but when strong emotions are involved shit hits the fan
im not a violent person but when strong emotions are involved shit hits the fan
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Wolfy said:On a side note - I feckin' hate those car stickers 'Baby on board' WTF? Ok I was thinking of ramming you but because you have a 'baby on board' I won't!! Its just people showing off how fertile/virile they are if you ask me.
Those car stickers are to warn the people that there are kids in the car.
i would'nt expect you to understand yet but you will when you have a kiddiwinkle of your own. You get a very strong urge to over protect you kids especially when their very young. You try to do everything in your power to stop anything bad happening to them or around them.
You get a horrible feeling in your guts even thinking about what could happen if somebody crashed in to ya with the baby in the car. its just like a little extra to make parents feel a bit better.
And in answer to nath's question ive got two step kids and one of my own it seemed the natural progression after getting married best thing i ever did lol having kids is amazing.
I've got a little boy called Ryan. He's 4, I'm still with his mother & we're engaged to get married. (Not all us notherners just fuck 'em & fuck off Nathan )
He's a top kid.
Oh yeah, his godparents are milenko & nics off here!
)He's a top kid.
Oh yeah, his godparents are milenko & nics off here!
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some very lovely answers peeps thanks. Apart from bitter old hag who wants my body but what can you do eh? Only one upper class poshy nathan and so many girls...
some very lovely answers peeps thanks. Apart from bitter old hag who wants my body but what can you do eh? Only one upper class poshy nathan and so many girls...
I got pregnant at 19, not because i didn't know about contraception but cos my pill ran out and i didn't renew it straight away. Now this may sound like a stupid mistake but i have since grown to believe that this was the best possible thing that could have ever happened to me and potentially saved my life for reasons which i will not go into. I was engaged to the father and was nothing but happy about the news.
For reasons beyond mine or the fathers control we were separated less than a week after i found out i was pregnant and when we got back together shortly before our son was born (I was aged 20 by then) the bond we had once had was not there anymore.
Brandon has a wonerful relationship with his father and is an exceptionally happy and well asjusted child so i have no quarms about separating with his father whatsoever.
Had i ever had to make the choice to have children i possibly never would have which scares me cos i now (as a parent) feel that people who do not have children miss out on one of the most precious and spiritual relationships that it is possible to have. I have now, at 26 just started my career so would like to spend the next few years concentrating on that but would love to have another child in the future.
Without my son, the majority of purpose for life for me would not exist either, he really is everything to me and what i feel for him is not comparable to anything but love between a mother and child.
For reasons beyond mine or the fathers control we were separated less than a week after i found out i was pregnant and when we got back together shortly before our son was born (I was aged 20 by then) the bond we had once had was not there anymore.
Brandon has a wonerful relationship with his father and is an exceptionally happy and well asjusted child so i have no quarms about separating with his father whatsoever.
Had i ever had to make the choice to have children i possibly never would have which scares me cos i now (as a parent) feel that people who do not have children miss out on one of the most precious and spiritual relationships that it is possible to have. I have now, at 26 just started my career so would like to spend the next few years concentrating on that but would love to have another child in the future.
Without my son, the majority of purpose for life for me would not exist either, he really is everything to me and what i feel for him is not comparable to anything but love between a mother and child.
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nathan said:
not even going to answer this one nathan sounds to me like ur trying to make a link between those who've had sex at early age and those who r single parents.
miss tickle yet again u have my agreement
