Here is a new question then, and just to complicate things further, can you have more then the one? Can you meet a few throughout your lifetime, or does everyone just have that certain soulmate thats just for them.Elev8/Levit8 said:well... when you do (when, not if) maybe that'll be the person they call "the one"
Falling in Love.
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Amelie said:
There's a few.
Everyone you pair off with in your life will demand sacrifices of you.
Sometimes you can make the wrong choice about whether they're worth it or not, and sometimes the right one.
Just as some will be more "the one" than others.
The one who requires the least from you in terms of sacrifices, and rewards you the most by being with them, is "the one".
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mr ben said:
I know bring you a tale from the human race, relax , recline & discover the melodies of passion
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How frikkin ACE was it when this was dropped by Andy Carol t'other weekend
Shooms said:I know bring you a tale from the human race, relax , recline & discover the melodies of passion
How frikkin ACE was it when this was dropped by Andy Carol t'other weekend
was one of the highlights of my night mate....and one of my all time favorite tracks, still makes the hairs on the back of my neck stand up.... andy carrol used to belt it out in the quad allnighter, the two drumbeats at the end of the pan pipe intro get me every time
i can remember it now pitch blackness with just the lazers.... fookin incredible
Amelie said:
Interesting question this chuck
one ive pondered over before I do think it can happen a few times at different stages in our lives.......people are ever changing and our thoughts and feelings change with us
although i also think that are few who go through life and never get the chance to love :| how awful must that be 
Well Ive certainely fell in Lust before & that was intresting and I guess good fun...
But falling in love has unfortunatley been one of the most horriblest of experinces for me.... It made me crazy and misearable as foook... And I guess Im still feeling the after effects of it pretty bad... Unrequited love is a mo fo to deal with!! No matter how hard you try and talk sense into yourself well it just dosnt help and getting back up of your sorry ass is bad hard to deal with....
Roller coaster is an understatement!
But anyway Ive finished being a great big grimmp now cause shit happens and life goes on right!
Time to get back on that horse and try again for me now failing that Battersea old dogs home will be having a visitor
S-J x
But falling in love has unfortunatley been one of the most horriblest of experinces for me.... It made me crazy and misearable as foook... And I guess Im still feeling the after effects of it pretty bad... Unrequited love is a mo fo to deal with!! No matter how hard you try and talk sense into yourself well it just dosnt help and getting back up of your sorry ass is bad hard to deal with....
Roller coaster is an understatement!
But anyway Ive finished being a great big grimmp now cause shit happens and life goes on right!
Time to get back on that horse and try again for me now failing that Battersea old dogs home will be having a visitor
S-J x
S-J said:
I hear that all too well - i have been there and bought the tee shirt on that one.! lol
It actually made me ill at one point - it starting to feel like it was the worse thing that had ever happended to me. Thats why i felt it was like grieving - as there was something there and would not go away but i knew in my heart that I would never have it. Was horrid and im still getting over it, been single now for two years, but its still there in my heart and im sure always will be but i know in time itll fade but ill never be able to forget it.
Im steadily trying to move on with my life and hopefully one day.....................but i know ill be ok
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S-J said:
My interpretation of love doesn't allow for unrequited love. To me, love is a shared thing, a connection, a bond whatever, that is easy, no arguments, and just both being completely urselves!...hmmm...
I have been in similar things...the ABSOLUTE worse...is when you know, you could really really love a person...if, the situation were right!!! And you just have to watch what might have been, slip through your fingers!!!!
But, I suppose their are no rules to this.
I agree with you Amilie...I can see it from your point of view. TBH, the thought of loosing my independance terrifies me. Not sure why exactly, because you seem happy from what you write, so why is it such a bad thing??? I'll ponder on this'n and get back to you...
NS- Agree with what you said about people "being the one"...bang on matey
ilovepiano said:Oh yeah, that hurts. That really fucking hurts.
You're not still obessed with me are you, we had that chat about your little crush did we not. Be a soldier and erm, soldier on through this terrible time. I am old enough to be your mother ffs, its just plain wrong ILP and can never happen. Soz.
Amelie said:You're not still obessed with me are you, we had that chat about your little crush did we not. Be a soldier and erm, soldier on through this terrible time. I am old enough to be your mother ffs, its just plain wrong ILP and can never happen. Soz.
Why, goddamn it? WHY? Arrrrrrrrragh
Lozzie said:
If it's true love I don't think you have to lose ur independence as the other person would never ask that of you!!!
I think bein in love is sooooooooooo much better......... it really is, fallin in love is still a little uncertain and i think when ur there, love is solid as a rock
(or should be)I split up with a guy last year after 2 and a half years (well, prob more like 2 years coz the last 6 months were pretty shite!) of thinkin i was in love, but now I know it couldnt have been as he restricted me from doin things and started to change who i was as a person! If I'm honest, I wasnt happy for most of the relationship and it was pretty damagin!
I had the time of my life when I was single last Summer, it was amazin, fantastical, superb!! I don't regret the relationship coz I re-discovered who I was and learnt SO much about myself and who I was. In the end, I learnt to love myself and be totally comfortable with who I am physically and mentally and I was really buzzin off bein single (not on my own, coz I never felt that way!)
I started takin the attitude of, "here I am, if you like me then great, if not then do one coz i'm not changin for anyone" and wasn't lookin AT ALL for any sort of relationship with anyone.....
When all of a sudden, some very special person came along totally unexpected! I was a bit apprehensive at first but its the best thing I've ever done!
This is really love, I know it.... it's easy, not hard work, we have trust, no each other inside out, have a laugh and i still get those feelings of first bein in love when i havent seen him for a bit!
I think we can have a a few people we love but maybe one special person who just gets you that little bit more!
xxx
Lozzie
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li'l Sonz said:If it's true love I don't think you have to lose ur independence as the other person would never ask that of you!!!
I think bein in love is sooooooooooo much better......... it really is, fallin in love is still a little uncertain and i think when ur there, love is solid as a rock
I split up with a guy last year after 2 and a half years (well, prob more like 2 years coz the last 6 months were pretty shite!) of thinkin i was in love, but now I know it couldnt have been as he restricted me from doin things and started to change who i was as a person! If I'm honest, I wasnt happy for most of the relationship and it was pretty damagin!
I had the time of my life when I was single last Summer, it was amazin, fantastical, superb!! I don't regret the relationship coz I re-discovered who I was and learnt SO much about myself and who I was. In the end, I learnt to love myself and be totally comfortable with who I am physically and mentally and I was really buzzin off bein single (not on my own, coz I never felt that way!)
I started takin the attitude of, "here I am, if you like me then great, if not then do one coz i'm not changin for anyone" and wasn't lookin AT ALL for any sort of relationship with anyone.....
When all of a sudden, some very special person came along totally unexpected! I was a bit apprehensive at first but its the best thing I've ever done!
This is really love, I know it.... it's easy, not hard work, we have trust, no each other inside out, have a laugh and i still get those feelings of first bein in love when i havent seen him for a bit!
I think we can have a a few people we love but maybe one special person who just gets you that little bit more!
xxx
Awwww, thats my girl!!!!
Glad you (and others in my life
) have found "true" love!thanks babe! I know you will find it too, it mad how it always comes when least expected! lol 
Lozzie said:Awwww, thats my girl!!!!
Glad you (and others in my life
MizzDeedz said:I hear that all too well - i have been there and bought the tee shirt on that one.! lol
It actually made me ill at one point - it starting to feel like it was the worse thing that had ever happended to me. Thats why i felt it was like grieving - as there was something there and would not go away but i knew in my heart that I would never have it. Was horrid and im still getting over it, been single now for two years, but its still there in my heart and im sure always will be but i know in time itll fade but ill never be able to forget it.
Im steadily trying to move on with my life and hopefully one day.....................but i know ill be ok
You know MizzDeedz I read your post just before I went to dance class and your whole words in this post have well and truly echoed through my head for hours and I couldnt wait to get back to reply to you hun!
If I had a great big hug smiley right now I glady be sharing it with you right now chuck!
Yeah you will be ok cause in life you have to be!! I so hear what you say about it making you feel ill... Ffs I thought I was bad hard towards emotions such as this... Ha! Wrong its knocked 10 shades of living shit out of me I tell you... Knocked me right down and on my ass it has but Im just about back up on my feets and have got a great big duster at the ready!!
Ive have found a fcuk off packet of great BIG WIDE V's in my pocket today and am gladly gonna use them at the world....
Cause feeling this poo is just no good for you... After all you can only give so much of your love out before you have non left to give & if its not given back to you.... Well bollox to that its rinses you out....
So chin up girl its time to soldier!!!
Lozz me ole mucker.... Bingo.... I was surer than sure that this was the case... But I guess its just another thing that I got wrong, makes you human dosnt it... Character bulding as my Mum keeps telling me!
Right Ive really finished whining now! Onwards and upwards and time to shout "Next"
lol S-J x
