My personal preference is not to have music on automatically. Sorry guys! I'd prefer an opt in rather than an opt out too, so you configure the settings so it plays automatically (if that's what you want) rather than have to switch it off if you aren't in the mood.
I just find that most sites piss me right off if music starts playing automatically when i'm listening to something else
I'll go along with what superdan wrote as the overwhelming majority seem to want a trial run, but I honestly don't see anything wrong with just clicking a single link which tunes you in. Maybe butty can move the radio to another area of the forum where the radio plays automatically and has a bigger shoutbox and whatnot:S
For me its a no brainer ........ there are a million sites out there ..... whether it be for clothes ,for a car or for the gym ...... they all introduce there selves with music .... if i don't like i switch the music off but it dosent stop me from visiting the website. you cant seriously tell me that someone who is visiting an Oldskool website will switch off because there is live music !!!!!!