Do you practice at being a dick?
Why did you start then?
I think there has to be pride for the country you live in-or u'll never want to do good by it, but also humility...or you'll be arrogant and the things you do, will not be for the best...
I love my country-as it has shaped me into who i am...i don't know what to say apart from that. everyone has a strong opinion on this subject it seems...and for once, im in a non-opinionated mood
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Completely agree there, and that's precisely why we DON'T need to shout about it from the rooftops. It's pointless and it's vulgar.
It could be argued that many of these nations who beat the drum so tiresomely about nationality (Americans & Aussies to name but two) do so really out of an inherent sense of insecurity.
Apart from the colour of their passports, most Americans & Aussies who bang on about patriotism have absolutely no reason whatsoever for doing so. In fact they DON'T HAVE a national identity because 300 years ago their "nations" didn't even exist. All this nauseating "God Bless America" nonsense is really just thinly veiled over-compensating for a complete lack of any national heritage or history at all. Or more accurately, the history they do have is really something they should be deeply ashamed of.
Patriotism and Nationalism have been constantly hijacked throughout history to produce an 'us versus them' mentality. And its very very powerful and dangerous. That's my beef with it. It usually ends in the massive slaughter of people manipulated into supporting it. I'm not saying its all bad, just that it needs keeping an eye on.
I also think when you live away from your country, as you are doing now, I tended to get a bit of a rose tinted view of it. When I came back, what came roaring back were the bits that had always pissed me off. In fact it took me a good few years to get the right balance.
Yeah I love my country and am proud of it. But I don't place that above anything someone else could feel for theirs. It's not a cynicism at all, it's cautious optimism
As for Brits being cool, a couple of episodes of Britain's got talent or the X factor, or perhaps a tv show presented by Danny Dyer should temper your extremism!!! Wherever you go there's cool, but there's always a few knobheads to balance it out!
The other thing is, what is Britishness? You can never really nail it. A lot of what is deemed Britishness, Pimms, Wimbledon, G and T's, Ascot etc has fuck all meaning for a working class raised bloke from Warrington. Churchillian spirit I get. A strong sense of Justice I get. A pioneering spirit to go to other countries and bring good stuff back I get.
Pick up the daily mail (wearing rubber gloves please) and read the poison the write about immigrants, about middle England, about private education. To the million plus readers a day that's what it is to be 'British'. To me a lot of it is destructive, selfish, isolationist, racist, classist..... I could go on.
That's my problem with it, it means different things to different people. And you have to know exactly what you mean, otherwise the BNP or the Mail are telling you what it is, and then it's no longer what you wanted it to be or thought it was.
Right, am now very late for work! Good thread though Chezzer, as ever.
Its not the Citizens that are insecure though...they don't know any better, its the corrupt govt. and people at the top that have drummed this into them since the beginning.
Disagree that they should be deeply ashamed though...although they do need to wake up and realise the rest of the world is seething at them... because goodness me, they reeeeally do not realise that.
Britishness is a load of bollocks. I'm English.
And in response to the first post, I think that it is us that should be celebrating our independence from the Yanks.
Not sure about the 'corrupt government' point, I think it's just a case of cause and effect to be honest.
It stands to reason that citizens of a newly established country will be more keen to assert their unique national identity than citizens of a country which has been around for donkeys years. Of course everyone has a sense of national pride and will want to big-up the traditions & history of their country, but in some cases it seems almost like a defense mechanism - "we don't have much history to shout about, but what we do have we'll shout about louder than anyone else".
America is a good example as a (relatively) young immigrant nation. With few exceptions American peoples ancestors come from the four corners of the globe, and not that long ago either. They essentially don't have a national identity, so they take great pains to construct one, and then are very protective of it. Absolutely nothing wrong with that. In my opinion there's a stark contrast between that, and "Great Britain" (I'll use the term loosely for fear of being dragged once again into the mire of semantics) which has been around largely unchanged for 1000 years or so.
For that reason it makes perfect sense to me that Americans make a big deal about "the good old USA" whereas Brits just don't feel the same need to make a fuss.
Just my opinion...
Thats a nice idea, although as you'll know most Americans have never been out of America, they forget that a world outside it exists! Most of them only know their history!
It really doesn't come as a surprise
And living abroad definitely gives 'home' a rosey tinge too.
Nowt wrong with that though.
Sometimes it's good to miss summat cos then you always appreciate it more.
You must be loving it over there though...
Isn't about 80% that have never been outside the US?
Not only that, but they had a President who went to war with Iraq believing he was doing God's work... and something daft like about 50% of Americans believe in creationism... and they have absolute retards like Sarah Palin trying to become Vice President. She didn't even know what the Bush Doctrine was ffs, lol
They're going downhill rapidly I reckon.
Oh its just you said you 'don't know bout the corrupt government point.'
No I meant I don't know what the corrupt government has to do with patriotism. All governments are corrupt in one way or another. Tis the nature of the beast.
One final point. The citizens of the universe thing doesn't cancel out the differences. It just ties us all together. You can still be a proud Scot or American or Japanese, whatever, but feel like you are a citizen of the world. I don't think it is or has to be boring at all.
We are all different. But to quote that often sample Jesse Jackson speech "We are unified, we are together." To me that is what patriotism sometimes misses.
One final point. The citizens of the universe thing doesn't cancel out the differences. It just ties us all together. You can still be a proud Scot or American or Japanese, whatever, but feel like you are a citizen of the world. I don't think it is or has to be boring at all.
We are all different. But to quote that often sample Jesse Jackson speech "We are unified, we are together." To me that is what patriotism sometimes misses.